16个做人的硬道理
<span style="background-color: white;"><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; font-size: 20px; "><b><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">一、只有小聪明，绝对无法超人一等 <wbr></font></b></font><span style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "></span></span><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 大小聪明，皆可谓聪明，真假聪明，也皆可谓聪明，但用之不同，结果会天壤之别。有些人以为聪明绝顶，没有任何对手，其实最容易失败者，正是此类人。真聪明者往往让人不知其聪明，而以最大限度地做成事为大要。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">二、多点看问题，就不会有死路 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 世上问题之多，犹如麻点。如果只盯住一点，不及其余，就会钻牛角尖，这是自我封闭的典型代表。做人必须多点看问题，一处不通看他处，让自己的人生方略“活”起来。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">三、任何时候绝不说不该说的话</font><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 嘴巴厉害往往惊人心，但也能伤人心。做人的硬道理之一是绝不说不该说的话。反之，随意放言，一则显得粗率。二则显得浮浅。在任何时候，只说该说的话，才是稳中取胜之道。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">四、用心做可能改变一生的事 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 善于做人，旨在改变一生。无数个成功案例表明：大凡做人到位者，都为自己良好的人生局面开了一个好头，并且成为立稳人生的柱石。人生之难，在于做成心中事，而要达到这一人生规划，离开高质量的做人之道，一定溃败千里。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">五、培养优良的个性即对自己负责任 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 个性是一个人成长中至为重要的一环---渴望人生成功者，必须认真分析自己的个性，取优去虐，让自己趋近完善。请注意，没有人能够深刻地解析你的个性，要承担一个任务，只有你自己是最好的医生。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">六、为人坦诚但不能不分对象 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 为什么有些人赢得一些小成就，却难以实现大成功？关键就是不能以坦然之心与合作者长久交往下去，而是在不知不觉中变了一套做法，结果不但失去人心，而且还失去了做大事的筹码。做人必须坦诚，这是众所周知，但不能不分象，这要结合实际灵活掌握的。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">七、总与人较劲，等于给自己留后患</font><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 与人较劲至少有三大不利：一证明自己不能控制对手;二空耗精力，只图一时解气;三把人际关系降到胶着状态且到处树敌到处是羁绊。生活中不乏此类人，甚为可笑！真正善于做人者，是把劲用到关键处，竭力避免你一把我一把刀式的唇枪舌战。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">八、时刻警惕自己出危险 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 在人生旅途中，危险的“杀伤力”往往是隐而不见的。你要掌握做人之道，必须时刻警惕自己周围的“危险”，防止被它缠绕，被它们袭击，被它们射伤，凡不能如此者，最后的失败都是无可挽回的！ <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">九、不能争到的就必须放弃掉 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> “争”是动物的欲望，也是人的欲望。有些人在做人之术中总以“争”字为第一，见什么眼热，殊不知一生正败在此字上。真正善于做人者，并不把“争”字看得生死般重要，而是懂得适时放弃，选择一条更为稳妥的取胜之道。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">十、精通三法：善于观察，慎于选择，敢于出手 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 没有观察的前行都是盲目的，即使偶有所获，那也是意料之外的，不可能得大胜局。智者总是先观察，然后作出合理的选择，再适时出手。这就是说，最大的做为皆源自于最敏锐的观察、最聪明的选择、最果敢的出手。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">十一、性格原理：脾气大者就会自伤身心 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 大脾气者表面上牛气冲天，一张口就让人心抖，一出手就让人心虚。实则不然！此人的最大弱点是在“赌气”中与人比高低。做人必须在忍让、轻柔之间多下一些功夫，避免与人斗强，再进一步讲，如能以容人之心待人，就会形成一种“和”字局面，而这正是成大事的性格。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">十二、善于处理人生大小难点 <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 人生中总有大小难点像雨点袭身，你是难以对付过去的。不善于处理这些难点，一定是低水平的。真正精于做人者，大难点来了，就能化大为小;小难点来了，就能够化有为无，从而不被它们限制住自己的思路和自己的手脚。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr> <wbr></font> <font face="黑体" color="#990030" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; ">十三、对自己咬牙，勿对别人</font><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "> <wbr></font></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"> <wbr> <wbr> 做人需要气魄，敢于与自己较量，此为“咬牙术”。但要注意，对别人咬牙是没多大用的，充其量是一种嫉妒心的折射。做人与做事往往为一体，只有自己战胜自己，才能让自己的成功更为坚定。只要你哆嗦，你的成功之石就会随之松散，甚至塌毁。 <wbr></b></font></div><div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; color: rgb(47, 54, 153); "></font></b></font></div>**** Hidden Message *****<div style="color: rgb(70, 70, 70); font-family: simsun; "><font face="楷体_GB2312, 楷体" color="#2F3699" style="word-wrap: normal; word-break: normal; line-height: 30px; font-size: 20px; "><b style="background-color: white;"></b></font></div><p></p> 16个做人的硬道理,看看对自己有帮助
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